Nemocycles

How do I know when its real? A lot of us keep wondering when we will know when its real. We stay in hurtful or un-fulfilling relationships as we wait for a sign or for the right guy/girl to come along. We play along, we pretend, we lie...we string people along, play with their hearts and feelings because we are unsure of what we feel or are unaware of the reality of the relationship that we are in. In all honesty, if you do not want to be with someone then just leave. They say it is better to be alone than to be with someone who brings nothing but hurt. If it real, then you don't just make a promise to someone, you will go out of your way to keep them. You will stay committed to this person even when it is boring or when the grass seems greener on the other side. When its real, its not a task waking up next to that person for the rest of your life. When its real, its not enough to put a ring on her finger and give her a title and your last name. They become the best they can fo